A Day In the Life


Man, does it feel great to be back at the computer again, putting my thoughts into words. If you’re not a dedicated writer, it’s tough to understand how defeated you feel when writer’s block takes over and you’re stuck.

I’ve been readmitted into WVSU and I am taking two classes this fall towards a Social Studies certification: Geography and a Sociology class called “Social Problems.” I’m really excited about both classes, which is amazing. I remember hating Geography in 7th grade and trying my best not to learn anything at the time. I remember being shocked in high school when I finally realized that Egypt was in Africa.

That Geography teacher is one of the best I’ve ever known. Her name is Mrs. Downey and she still teaches the same subject at the same school. A month or so into my seventh grade year, my grades were already slipping towards failure in two of my major courses (I was just barely Cs in English and Science). She kept me after class one day and asked one of the most important questions I have ever been asked by a teacher: “What do you love?” I paused, and she continued. “You love to draw, right? You love art?” I nodded. “Tell you what, you bring at least three of your school grades up to Cs or better and I will buy you a hundred dollars worth of art supplies.” It was the first time any teacher had ever made a promise to me other than, “If you don’t sit down, I’m calling your mother.” The greatest thing is that I kept my end of the bargain and she kept hers.

I found a folder in my drawer yesterday that had a collection of report cards from elementary school. One of them was from the second nine weeks of fourth grade. In the teacher’s comments it says, “I would like to schedule a conference as soon as possible to discuss my concerns for Jason.” Other information shows that I had trouble working independently, working neatly, and listening attentively. This was an improvement over the first nine weeks when I also had trouble following directions and completing assigned work on time.

Third nine weeks wasn’t much of an improvement. Teacher comments: “Jason has not shown much growth in his behavior and study skills.” And yet again, I did not work independently or neatly, follow directions, or listen attentively.

It is important to note that my fourth grade teacher, Mr. Copley, was also one of my favorites, especially after looking back, because regardless of my faults (and there were many) he still cared about me, treated me with respect, and always tried to make me smile. My mom has a picture of Mr. Copley and I standing together, him squatting down a little so he can get his arm around my shoulders. Our smiles are big and honest.

As I said, it feels good to be writing again. I haven’t thought about Mr. Copley or Mrs. Downey for a while and here I am writing about them. I have a lot more to write about and will try to get it posted in the next day or so. I still need to write about my rekindled interest in WWII that was spawned by a recent marathon of Medal of Honor games, courtesy of my little brother.

Until later — “There’s no turning back now that you opened up to your mind.”

Everyone who knows me or reads my blog knows how much I love books and movies. When the two are combined, hey that’s just great. I just read on IMDB that a move based on the novel The Time Traveler’s Wife is coming out some time this year. It stars Eric Bana and Rachel McAdams. I don’t want to give away too many details, but here is a basic plot summary for the novel from books.google.com:

“A dazzling novel in the most untraditional fashion, this is the remarkable story of Henry DeTamble, a dashing, adventuresome librarian who travels involuntarily through time, and Clare Abshire, an artist whose life takes a natural sequential course. Henry and Clare’s passionate love affair endures across a sea of time and captures the two lovers in an impossibly romantic trap, and it is Audrey Niffenegger’s cinematic storytelling that makes the novel’s unconventional chronology so vibrantly triumphant. An enchanting debut and a spellbinding tale of fate and belief in the bonds of love, The Time Traveler’s Wife is destined to captivate readers for years to come.”

I’m really excited about this. If it is done right, this could be an Oscar contender. It is directed by Robert Schwentke, same guy who directed Flightplan. It will be interesting to see how he handles the scenes in which Henry passes through time. Parts of the book are also a little controversial and I’m curious to know if any of that will be included in the film.

Since we’re on the topic of movies, I have been obsessively browsing the web site Flixster, which is kind of like Facebook for movie-lovers. It’s funner that I thought it would be, reviewing movies, completing movie quizzes, and listing my favorite movies and actors/actresses.

I highly recommend this site to all movie lovers. It’s easy to navigate and has a lot of excellent features, including a movie theater with 100+ movies you can watch with limited commercial interruptions.

Here is a list of 140 of my favorite actors/actresses (not really in any order). Hopefully this works:

  • Cary Grant

    Cary Grant

  • Johnny Depp

    Johnny Depp

  • George Clooney

    George Cloo…

  •  Ewan McGregor

    Ewan McGreg…

  • Kate and Spencer

    Katharine H…

  • Funny Face

    Audrey Hepb…

  • Ingrid Bergman

    Ingrid Berg…

  • Edward Woods and James Cagney

    James Cagne…

  • Humphrey Bogart

    Humphrey Bo…

  • Frank Sinatra and Gene Kelly

    Gene Kelly

  • Kate and Spencer

    Spencer Tra…

  • Kevin Spacey

    Kevin Space…

  • Movie Poster

    Dustin Hoff…

  • Claude Rains

    Claude Rain…

  • Gregory Peck and Audrey Hepburn

    Gregory Pec…

  • The Wild One

    Marlon Bran…

  • Jack Nichol…

  • Cate Blanchett

    Cate Blanch…

  • meryl streep

    Meryl Stree…

  • Heath Ledger

    Heath Ledge…

  • The Virginian

    Gary Cooper

  • Leonardo Dicaprio

    Leonardo Di…

  • I love the smell of napalm in the morning

    Robert Duva…

  • Tom Hanks in Forrest Gump (1994)

    Tom Hanks

  • Robert De Niro

    Robert De N…

  • Scarface

    Al Pacino

  • Hugh Jackman

    Hugh Jackma…

  • Russell Crowe as SID 6.7 in Virtuosity (1995)

    Russell Cro…

  • Lost in Translation - 2003

    Bill Murray

  • Christian Bale

    Christian B…

  • Paul Newman

    Paul Newman

  • Ralph Fiennes

    Ralph Fienn…

  • Morgan Freeman as Him in 10 Items or Less (2006)

    Morgan Free…

  • Liam Neeson

    Liam Neeson

  • Ben Kingsley

    Ben Kingsle…

  • Goodfellas

    Joe Pesci

  • Tom Jones

    Albert Finn…

  • There Will Be Blood

    Daniel Day-…

  • Jude Law

    Jude Law

  • I Am Sam

    Sean Penn

  • Gerard Butler

    Gerard Butl…

  • Scarlett Johansson

    Scarlett Jo…

  • Captain Barbossa

    Geoffrey Ru…

  • Samuel L. Jackson

    Samuel L. J…

  • Glenn Close

    Glenn Close

  • Kate Winslet

    Kate Winsle…

  • Emma Thompson

    Emma Thomps…

  • Harvey Keitel

    Harvey Keit…

  • Philip Seymour Hoffman

    Philip Seym…

  • Michael Madsen

    Michael Mad…

  • Christina Ricci

    Christina R…

  • cheers

    Bruce Willi…

  • Patch Adams with cancer patient

    Robin Willi…

  • The Rocky Horror Picture Show

    Tim Curry

  • Peter Krause and Mark Ruffalo at Sundance in 2004

    Peter Kraus…

  • Freedom

    Tim Robbins

  • Sean Connery

    Sean Conner…

  • Denzel

    Denzel Wash…

  • Bad Boys

    Will Smith

  • Ashley Judd

    Ashley Judd

  • Lauren Ambrose

    Lauren Ambr…

  • John Travolta

    John Travol…

  • Djimon Hounsou

    Djimon Houn…

  • Nicolas Cage

    Nicolas Cag…

  • Tommy Lee Jones

    Tommy Lee J…

  • Joseph Fiennes

    Joseph Fien…

  • The Golden Army

    Ron Perlman

  • Jonny Lee Miller

    Jonny Lee M…

  • Robert Carlyle

    Robert Carl…

  • Happy Gilmore and Bob Barker

    Adam Sandle…

  • Harrison Ford

    Harrison Fo…

  • The Lord of the Rings - The Fellowship of the Ring

    Ian McKelle…

  • Brad Pitt

    Brad Pitt

  • Edward Norton

    Edward Nort…

  • Bill

    Bill Nighy

  • Owen Wilson

    Owen Wilson

  • Adrien Brody

    Adrien Brod…

  • best GQ cover ever!!!

    Clive Owen

  • Carol Burnett as Kangaroo

    Carol Burne…

  • The original Dumbledore

    Richard Har…

  • Richard Dreyfuss

    Richard Dre…

  • Gwyneth Paltrow

    Gwyneth Pal…

  • Michael Caine

    Michael Cai…

  • Royal Tenembaums

    Gene Hackma…

  • For a Few Dollars More

    Clint Eastw…

  • Say Anything...

    John Cusack

  • Walken for President

    Christopher…

  • Jack Black as Jerry in Be Kind Rewind (2008)

    Jack Black

  • Val Kilmer

    Val Kilmer

  • Drew Barrymore

    Drew Barrym…

  • The Big Lebowski

    Jeff Bridge…

  • Grace Kelly

    Grace Kelly

  • The Third Man

    Orson Welle…

  • James Stewart

    James Stewa…

  • Patrick Stewart

    Patrick Ste…

  • Kate Hudson

    Kate Hudson

  • Adam Brody

    Adam Brody

  • James

    James Caan

  • Ahhh

    Will Ferrel…

  • Kathy Bates

    Kathy Bates

  • Wes Bentley

    Wes Bentley

  • Benicio Del Toro

    Benicio Del…

  • Josh Brolin as Llewelyn Moss in No Country for Old Men (2007)

    Josh Brolin

  • Ray Liotta

    Ray Liotta

  • Episode III - Revenge of the Sith

    James Earl …

  • Julie Andrews

    Julie Andre…

  • Winona Ryder

    Winona Ryde…

  • Shall We Dance

    Richard Ger…

  • Laurence Fishburne

    Laurence Fi…

  • Kirk Douglas and Lana Turner

    Kirk Dougla…

  • The Ten Commandments

    Charlton He…

  • My Fair Lady

    Rex Harriso…

  • Lee Marvin

    Lee Marvin

  • Ryan Gosling

    Ryan Goslin…

  • Joaquin Phoenix

    Joaquin Pho…

  • 64th Annual Golden Globe Awards

    Helen Mirre…

  • Helen Hunt

    Helen Hunt

  • Saving Grace

    Holly Hunte…

  • Javier Bardem

    Javier Bard…

  • Matt Damon

    Matt Damon

  • Abigail Breslin

    Abigail Bre…

  • Get Smart

    Steve Carel…

  • Alan

    Alan Arkin

  • Annie Get Your Gun

    Judy Garlan…

  • Renée Zellweger

    Renée Zellw…

  • Ryan Phillippe

    Ryan Philli…

  • Adrian Grenier

    Adrian Gren…

  • Jeremy Piven

    Jeremy Pive…

  • What Are You Wearing?

    Stanley Tuc…

  • Premiere -  Hairspray

    Michelle Pf…

  • Coolest Man In The World

    Chow Yun Fa…

  • Kevin Connolly as Fin in The Notebook

    Kevin Conno…

  • Mei

    Ziyi Zhang

  • David Carradine

    David Carra…

  • Steve Buschemi

    Steve Busch…

  • The Big Lebowski

    John Goodma…

  • Sam Elliot

    Sam Elliott

  • Judi Dench

    Judi Dench

  • Vince Vaughn

    Vince Vaugh…

  • Eric Bana

    Eric Bana

  • .

I’ve done it again.  This method may only work for people who love movies and who love to read.  That’s me.  WARNING:  This post might just be the result of desperation for something to write about.

I know how much some people love to watch political debates.  I personally hate them.  Too often, the conversation steers away from the topics and onto how much the candidates hate each other.  So, how to get my healthy dose of debating and arguing?  Movie reviews.

Think about it.  The reviews are almost always on topic and if you read enough reviews of the same movie, you get a nice argument between people who love the movie and people who hate it.

For example, I was browsing reviews for the movie Surf’s Up (It was on, I was bored).  A lot of the reviews complimented the movie’s script and its creative mockumentary style.  There were also some rave reviews from people who loved penguins, surfing, and John Heder.  However, I stumbled onto this hilarious little gem from flixster.com that just made my day:

“HORRIBLE. Lets put together two things I am sick of: Reality TV and Penguins…F. ME. CAn I give it 0 stars?”

Not that I agree with his review, but it was just really funny to me that it followed one that said, “The mockumentary stuff is really very well done,” and right above one that says, “incorporating the mockumentary film style with the animation genre was just brilliant.”

This just reminds me of going to see a movie with a big group of friends.  Inevitably, someone in your group is going to hate it when everyone else loves it, or vice versa.  The car trip home is unforgettable because no one stops talking (or arguing) about the movie.  That’s why I love movies so much.  I just don’t think I’m at that stage in my life where I can argue about politics without getting a headache and wanting to scream until my lungs explode.  But movies, I could go on and on.

Try it some time.  Go see a movie with some friends and argue about it as long as possible.  You’ll feel better and I’ll bet your appreciation of the movie will skyrocket.

Until later — “There’s no turning back now that you opened up to your mind.”

I must be a real weenie when it comes to minor forms of pain. Allow me to explain…

My ears have been bothering me since we got back from the beach. Since I spent most of the vacation in water, I assumed it was just water stuck in my ears. Today, though, I was having trouble hearing and a little bit of pain in my left ear.

So, I did the smart thing and went to Health Plus. The doctor looked in both ears. “They’re a little pink, and you have some wax building up in there. We need to flush out your ears.”

Hmm, sounded harmless enough. A few minutes later, a nurse walked in with a spray bottle that had a long tube on it with a plastic disc and a much tinier tube at the tip of it.  Again, it didn’t look so bad. The nurse politely asked me to hold this oddly-shaped white plastic tray under my ear as she gently slid the tiny tube into my ear. As she squeezed the nozzle on the spray bottle, my ear filled with water and a felt just a slight stinging. She sprayed again and again. “There’s nothing coming out,” she said. After a few minutes of me grabbing the side of the seat, she finally cheered, “Oh, there we go. That’s a big chunk of wax.” (I clean my ears, I swear. Doctor said the buildup could be due to the infection.) Simple enough, right?

However, when she slid the tiny hose into my right ear and squeezed the nozzle, I immediately felt pain on the inside of my ear that grew worse with every squeeze of the nozzle. “Ow,” I whispered, figuring the pain was normal.

“Does that hurt?” the nurse asked. I could only mumble my answer as my eyes began to get glassy and I could hear (or maybe feel) a ringing in my ears. “Are you okay?” she asked.

“I don’t know.” I sat back in the seat and closed my eyes for just a second, hoping to ease the pain. I didn’t open them again until I heard the nurse shouting for one of the girls in the hallway.

“I need someone to help me get this chair back, he just passed out.” After a few minutes of embarrassing stares from nurses walking in and out to check on me, the doctor wandered in and checked both of my ears again.

“This right one is still a little clogged, but the left one looks good. Want to try to finish the right one?” Was he serious? Sure, why not, what’s the worst that could happen? I’ve already embarrassed myself by passing out during an ear cleaning.

After giving me some time to relax, the nurse sat me up carefully, handed me the plastic tub, eased the tube into my ear, and squeezed again. After about the fifth squeeze, I felt that familiar wave of nausea again. As if on instinct, in a series of swift motions, the nurse pulled the tube away, scooted the trash can over next to me, and then back away.

I puked. Couldn’t help it. And the embarrassment got worse with every heave. Once the doctor got word that I had vomited, that was it. I lay with my knees up, breathing and relaxing for about thirty minutes until they finally gave me permission to check out and go home.

Here is my confession. This is the third time this has happened to me. I passed out when I had to have lead removed from under my thumb nail and the doctor injected me with a local anesthesia to numb my thumb and then walked off for a few minutes to give it time to work. I was out in just about a minute and a half. Something similar happened when I had to get debris removed from under my toenail. I didn’t actually pass out this time because I felt it coming and managed to bring my knees up and breathe through it.

Why? Why me? I don’t have a low threshold for pain. I walked away from being hit by a car while riding my bike. I once tumbled down a rocky hillside and walked home looking like I had just fought Edward Scissorhands. I was able to stay conscious when I twisted my ankle, which was definitely the worst pain I have ever felt. So why did something so simple make me dizzy and nauseated?

Can any medical experts out there answer that question for me, or do I remain a mystery.

Finally… I own an I-Pod. Sure, it’s an I-Pop Mini and it’s a girly blend of pink and purple, but it’s mine. Thanks to an unbelievably generous student (who was already in my book as one of the nicest kids I’ve ever known) I now have an I-Pod filled with 300+ of my favorite songs.

I decided to share it, so if you were to check my artists, you would come across Fergie, Gwen Stefani, Kellie Pickler, and a dozen or so more that are far from what I enjoy listening to. You would also find a Playlist titled “Disney.” Not hard to guess who that’s for.

I’m just so excited. I’ve spent hours already, syncing it up to my I-Tunes and getting as many of my songs as I can on there. I was really pleased o know that Nine Inch Nails is offering their new album The Slip for free online. Of course I downloaded it. It’s not as good as other albums of theirs, but hey, free music. You can get it by entering your e-mail here:

album-thumbnail.jpg    The Slip

I was also happy to find that Smashing Pumpkins (who were one of the first rock bands to offer an entire album online) still had Machina II available online. You can get it here:

machina2cr04.jpg     Machina II

I think maybe I’m obsessed. I already have 433 songs on there and I still have more to go. I’m ripping some MP3s from CDs I have and putting them on, also. The CDs are just taking up space in my car.

If anyone knows of some other artists who offer MP3s of their music online, just let me know. I know Josh Ritter, an amazing songwriter comparable to Bob Dylan, has a few free MP3s on his homepage, as well:

joshritter.jpg    Josh Ritter Music

Until later — “There’s no turning back now that you opened up to your mind.”

In his book The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell writes about “Connectors,” people who are responsible for spreading “social epidemics” to others.  He has a test in the book that lists 250 surnames taken at random from the Manhattan phone book.  The task is to go down the list and give yourself a point every time you see a surname that is shared by someone you know.  Here is the list:

Algazi, Alvarez, Alpern, Ametrano, Andrews, Aran, Arnstein, Ashford, Bailey Ballout, Bamberger, Baptista, Barr, Barrows, Baskerville, Bassiri, Bell, Bokgese, Brandao, Bravo, Brooke, Brightman, Billy, Blau, Bohen, Bohn, Borsuk, Brendle, Butler, Calle, Cantwell, Carrell, Chinlund, Cirker, Cohen, Collas, Couch, Callegher, Calcaterra, Cook, Carey, Cassell, Chen, Chung, Clarke, Cohn, Carton, Crowley, Curbelo, Dellamanna, Diaz, Dirar, Duncan, Dagostino, Delakas, Dillon, Donaghey, Daly, Dawson, Edery, Ellis, Elliott, Eastman, Easton, Famous, Fermin, Fialco, Finklestein, Farber, Falkin, Feinman, Friedman, Gardner, Gelpi, Glascock, Grandfield, Greenbaum Greenwood, Gruber, Garil, Goff, Gladwell, Greenup, Gannon, Ganshaw, Garcia, Gennis, Gerard, Gericke, Gilbert, Glassman, Glazer, Gomendio, Gonzalez, Greenstein, Guglielmo, Gurman, Haberkorn, Hoskins, Hussein, Hamm, Hardwick, Harrell, Hauptman, Hawkins, Henderson, Hayman, Hibara, Hehmann, Herbst, Hedges, Hogan, Hoffman, Horowitz, Hsu, Huber, Ikiz, Jaroschy, Johann, Jacobs, Jara, Johnson, Kassel, Keegan, Kuroda, Kavanau, Keller, Kevill, Kiew, Kimbrough, Kline, Kossoff, Kotzitzky, Kahn, Kiesler, Kosser, Korte, Leibowitz, Lin, Liu, Lowrance, Lundh, Laux, Leifer, Leung, Levine, Leiw, Lockwood, Logrono, Lohnes, Lowet, Laber, Leonardi, Marten, McLean, Michaels, Miranda, Moy, Marin, Muir, Murphy, Marodon, Matos, Mendoza, Muraki, Neck, Needham, Noboa, Null, O’Flynn, O’Neill, Orlowski, Perkins, Pieper, Pierre, Pons, Pruska, Paulino, Popper, Potter, Purpura, Palma, Perez, Portocarrero, Punwasi, Rader, Rankin, Ray, Reyes, Richardson, Ritter, Roos, Rose, Rosenfeld, Roth, Rutherford, Rustin, Ramos, Regan, Reisman, Renkert, Roberts, Rowan, Rene, Rosario, Rothbart, Saperstein, Schoenbrod, Schwed, Sears, Statosky, Sutphen, Sheehy, Silverton, Silverman, Silverstein, Sklar, Slotkin, Speros, Stollman, Sadowski, Schles, Shapiro, Sigdel, Snow, Spencer, Steinkol, Stewart, Stires, Stopnik, Stonehill, Tayss, Tilney, Temple, Torfield, Townsend, Trimpin, Turchin, Villa, Vasillov, Voda, Waring, Weber, Weinstein, Wang, Wegimont, Weed, Weishaus.  

When I took this test, I scored a 72.  Gladwell says that “the first–and most obvious–criterion is that Connectors know lots of people.”  One of my close high school friends used to joke that I know everyone because whenever we were out, I would see four or five people or more that I knew.  There was a running joke that if I went to a different state, I would still see someone I know.

I never took this joke seriously until a few years ago my wife and I were at King’s Island and I bumped into a lady I used to teach with.  The next summer, I was in line for a ride at Cedar Point and realized I was just a few people behind one of the school counselors at GW. 

Wait… it gets better.  The following year, I traveled to Disney World with my wife and kids.  Keep in mind that Disney has four parks, each of which has hundreds if not thousands of people in attendance.  We were walking through Magic Kingdom when I spotted a student of mine and her father, sitting on a bench.

Gladwell says, “Sprinkled among every walk of life, in other words, are a handful of people with a truly extraordinary knack of making friends and acquaintances. They are Connectors.”  I don’t know if I’m a connector or not, but I do know a lot of people.  Gladwell also points out that most people score around 20 or less.

It isn’t hard to believe that I know a lot of people.  I have worked in fast food, retail, and at the local movie theater.  And as a teacher, I have approximately 125 students and I get to know many of their parents, as well.  So I get the opportunity to get to know 200+ people a year.  And I’m grateful for every one of them.

Try this test out and see how you score.  I was thinking of trying it with a local phone book, but I don’t know if it would be as effective.

Until later– “There’s no turning back now that you opened up to your mind.”

I just found out that one of my favorite television shows, New Amsterdam, is probably going to be canceled. And I think it has very little to do with viewers and ratings and more to do with “creativity problems.”

What exactly does that mean? I imagine this angry television writer throwing a tantrum because he’s out of ideas for the show and is parading around shouting, “No more! No! I won’t do anymore!”

This isn’t the first time a show I’ve fallen in love with has been canceled. Does anyone remember the show Wonderfalls? It was also a FOX show and had one of the most amazing main characters I have ever seen. Her name is Jaye and she is cynical, antisocial, “overeducated and underemployed”, bitter, and best of all a master at avoiding expectations. The premise of the show was a little weird, but the mark of good writing is when the characters within a story change. It’s even funnier when they change against their will. In this case, the cure for Jaye’s cynicism comes in the form of inanimate objects speaking to her and giving her clues that lead to helping her change people’s lives.

Here is one of my favorite quotes from the first episode:

Eric: Life can be sort of peaceful when you stop struggling.

Jaye: It’s a lot like drowning that way.

But, unfortunately, the show went the way of other artistic shows that just aren’t meant for mainstream crowd, I guess. I fell in love with it and was heartbroken when the fourth episode aired and then that was it.

There is a similar show out now that I also love: Eli Stone. I won’t ramble on and on about that one just yet. Let’s hope FOX keeps Amsterdam alive and I finally get to see if John finds true love and becomes mortal (although I like that he’s immortal. It does make him a better cop.) If I just confused you, watch the show. It’ll make more sense then.

Until later– “There’s no turning back now that you opened up to your mind.”

I think it’s really funny that my last post about being an ADHD reader was spotlighted by two ADHD blogs.  I guess it was a pretty impressive work of writing.  I wrote it last night after a very tiring two days.

Wednesday I did yoga for thirty minutes with an instructor who comes in and teaches it to my students.  Then, at 12:20, we left for a nature hike with Mr. Smith, my Science teacher colleague.  That was an awesome hike, down behind the school and up a steep hill until we came up next to the road.  I’m sure our group of thirty or so students looked pretty comical emerging from the woods near the road.

Then, yesterday, I took the students outside at 11:50 to play whiffle ball and played all afternoon until 2:55.  After that, I drove to my writing workshop and did a presentation on using digital video with students.  Finally, I drove to dance class and practiced the dance for my routine four times, after which I flopped onto a tumbling mat and felt every muscle in my legs pulsating.

This next statement might shock you:  When I was sitting in my bed last night, watching CSI, a ticker scrolled across the screen announcing that an 8 year old boy was lost somewhere in Kanawha State Forest.  The ticker was calling for anyone who wanted to volunteer to join the search.  My heart skipped and I jumped up off of the bed.  All of my exhaustion slipped away and I started to pull on my jeans.

“I want to go,” I told my wife.

“My God, he’s only eight,” she said.

“I know.”  Both of us were thinking the same thing.  Eight.  Only one year older than our daughter.  “I want to go.”

“Honey, by the time you got there, they would probably have a hundred people searching.  And how well do you know the woods at Kanawha State Forest?”

I thought about it.  “Not very well.”  So, worried that I might get lost myself, I did not go.  I wanted to, really bad, but honestly they would probably have to call another search party to help me out of the woods, also.

Until later — “There’s no turning back now that you opened up to your mind.”

People who know me well know that I am an ADHD reader.  I am usually reading three to four books at a time, and sometimes I will completely forget about a book and start another one.  The funny thing is I could map a list of books that I have started and not finished in order to move on to a different book.  I’ll put (inc.) next to the ones I didn’t finish and you’ll see my point.  This will also tell you a lot about my eclectic taste in books.  I’ll start with last summer:

The Gunslinger—-> Bag of Bones (inc.)—-> On the Road (inc.)—-> To Kill a Mockingbird—-> Crum (inc.)—-> All the Pretty Horses (inc.)—> The Book on Leadership—-> It’s Not About Me (inc.)—-> Empire Falls (inc.)—-> Lonesome Dove (inc.)—-> Breakfast of Champions-—> Cat’s Cradle—-> Sirens of Titan (inc.)—-> The Maltese Falcon (inc.)—-> Trainspotting (inc.)—-> The Kite Runner (inc.)—-> One Hundred Years of Solitude (inc.)—-> The Tipping Point (currently reading).

See what I mean.  Now, in my defense, some of those books are pretty hefty.  Lonesome Dove is somewhere near 1000 pages and Trainspotting is tough to read because it is written using Scottish phonetics.  “Now most people would put this doon tae experience, ye always want what ye cannae have and the things that ye dinnae really gie a toss aboot get handed tae ye oan a plate.”  And I have read Bag of Bones before,but I wanted to read it again.  Once I stumbled on to Jack Kerouac’s On the Road, however, I just abandoned Stephen King’s beautifully written horror romance to go traveling across the country with the Beats.  And when I suddenly remembered I had never read To Kill a Mockingbird, I was appalled and just had to read it right away.  And so on, and so on.

You can also tell from this list what kind of impact Kurt Vonnegut’s work has on me since I did finish all but one of his novels on the list.

In her book The Bell Jar (the first book I read more than once, by the way ) Sylvia Plath’s narrator says,

“If neurotic is wanting two mutually exclusive things at one and the same time, then I’m neurotic as hell.  I’ll be flying back and forth between one mutually exclusive thing and another for the rest of my days.”

I’m usually flying back and forth between six or seven mutually exclusive things at the same time, and it is usually a stack of books.

I can understand what people who have a shopping addiction are going through. I just bought three new books today, The Dharma Bums, The World is Flat, and Blink. I felt that exciting rush when I cracked open the first one and read the first line. It was The Dharma Bums by Jack Kerouac. The line was this: “Hopping a freight out of Los Angeles at high noon one day in late September 1955 I got on a gondola and lay down with my duffel bag under my head and my knees crossed and contemplated the clouds as we rolled north to Santa Barbara.” People just don’t write like that anymore. In fact, no one has ever written like Kerouac.

All three of the books I picked up have something in common. They have been said to have changed people’s lives. According to most of the reviews, all three of these books have had an impact on our country in some way.

Jack Kerouac pioneered a movement that changed the face of literature and art forever and opened readers’ eyes to a generation of men who were beaten but not defeated.  The Dharma Bums tells about his venture into Buddhism and self-discovery.  Reviewers of this books have said it changed they way they look at life, at material possessions, at money, and inspired them to pay more attention to what really was important.  I’ve read On the Road and most reviewers say that Dharma Bums is much better.  I can’t wait.

The World is Flat: A Brief History of the Twenty-First Century is one of those books I already know is important without even reading a word of it.  WV State Department of Education is pushing for 21st century learning skills and this book is one of the essential texts for understanding how much our world has changed in just the past few years and what we can do to prepare to become 21st century learners.  This book has been out for several years and I already feel like I’ve missed something by not reading it.

Blink is another one that I know is important.  Who can resist the title: Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking.  It’s tough for me to explain what this book is about, so I will recruit my amazon.com announcer friend to do it for me.

Editorial Reviews
Amazon.com
Blink is about the first two seconds of looking–the decisive glance that knows in an instant. Gladwell, the best-selling author of The Tipping Point, campaigns for snap judgments and mind reading with a gift for translating research into splendid storytelling. Building his case with scenes from a marriage, heart attack triage, speed dating, choking on the golf course, selling cars, and military maneuvers, he persuades readers to think small and focus on the meaning of “thin slices” of behavior. The key is to rely on our “adaptive unconscious”–a 24/7 mental valet–that provides us with instant and sophisticated information to warn of danger, read a stranger, or react to a new idea. Gladwell includes caveats about leaping to conclusions: marketers can manipulate our first impressions, high arousal moments make us “mind blind,” focusing on the wrong cue leaves us vulnerable to “the Warren Harding Effect” (i.e., voting for a handsome but hapless president). In a provocative chapter that exposes the “dark side of blink,” he illuminates the failure of rapid cognition in the tragic stakeout and murder of Amadou Diallo in the Bronx. He underlines studies about autism, facial reading and cardio uptick to urge training that enhances high-stakes decision-making. In this brilliant, cage-rattling book, one can only wish for a thicker slice of Gladwell’s ideas about what Blink Camp might look like. –Barbara Mackoff –This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Sounds great doesn’t it?  Amazon users only gave it 3 1/2 stars, but that;s been true about a lot of books I have read and loved.  His other book, The Tipping Point only received 4 stars and I absolutely love that book.  That’s a lot coming from someone who shunned nonfiction works for years (except for autobiographies and memoirs).

So go out and but one of these great books.  Let me know what you think if you have already read them.

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